Cocktails before a Dance
In a fantasy world, we can probably have a cocktail party before any type of venue. However, a popular venue, such as going to a dance, club, or lounge enables us the pleasantries of having a group of friends for cocktails before a dinner dance. Invitations are sent out on visiting cards, not paper or any printed cocktail party invitation card and must state the location, date, and time. It is necessary to add "R.s.v.p," because the hostess or host usually makes the reservations for those of her guests who wish to go on to the next venue afterwards. The invitations should be extended by telephone that that the hostess or host can know immediately the headcount who will be attending the dinner dance or club so that the host or hostess can make the reservations sooner. In all practicality, this will make everything convenient for all individuals of the party.
From the guests perspective, you must pay the cost of admission, dinner, drinks and anything else at the later party unless your hostess or host specifically says or writes that he or she expects you as her guest. If you are not a member of the of the club involved, you must find out in advance whether or not you should sign as a member of another club or pay in cash. If either isn't permitted, then you must ask your host if you sign his or her name and add your initials in order to be able to pay him or her for your share when he or she leaves their bill. Be courteous and understanding to your host or hostess so that there is no confusion financially speaking. Overall, when avoiding minor troubles you make everyone else's time more enjoyable.
Posted by Eugene Vodovoz at 26 December 2011, 4:31 PM 
Categories: Etiquette
Tags: cocktail party invitations dance club lounge RSVP
Categories: Etiquette
Tags: cocktail party invitations dance club lounge RSVP
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