Etiquette: The Opera


The Basics: The Opera

The Opera is a classy place and your consideration is entitled to others in the audience as well as the performers. Basic principles of public conduct apply at an Opera as well as other indoor entertainments. Here are a few tips to keep in mind; don’t draw attention to yourself by noisy or conspicuous behavior. 


Box seats at a theatre....

The gentlemen should help the ladies take off their coats; if in a box, the gentlemen nearest to the curtain draws it back, dividing the anteroom from the box; the ladies enter first followed by the gentlemen. One of duties of the gentlemen is to make sure the curtain at the back of the box remains tightly closed so the light from the anteroom doesn’t shine on the faces of others in the audience. Between the acts, both ladies and gentlemen should visit their friends in other boxes, but the lady should always have an escort; never should they be left in the box alone.  Everyone must return to their box as soon as the signal is given for the raising of the curtain, it is frustrating for the performers and audience if people come in once the performance has resumed. An enthusiastic audience may applaud at the end of an aria and, of course, after each curtain, but not for the entrances or exits of a performer.

What to wear
Most of us are indecisive about what we wear when going out for an occasion. Monday night at the Opera was very popular in the old days and is still today in many places. In New York and other large cities there has been a return to very formal dress for Monday night at the Opera. In the boxes, many of the men wear white tie and tails and their companions wear long evening dresses and their most brilliant jewelry. However, the formality isn't required; men can wear dinner jackets and the ladies an evening, dinner, or cocktail dress. On evenings other than Monday, clothing is very much the same as that worn to the theater; dinner jackets for men dinner dresses for woman.  

Nowhere is greater dignity of manner required than in a box at the opera.

                                                                                     -- Emily Post, 1922


“The Palace Garnier, still known to many as the “Paris Opera”, was the world’s largest theatre and opera house when it was opened January 5th, 1875”

 
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